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Postby Strigo » 2006-05-26, 15:24

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yabba wrote:I was taught that, on every day, and I am polite ! And if you switch on your lawn mower during mittagsruhe, you'll get some visit from the other neighbours ! :!: :!: :!:


I also won't do something like that, and it can be disturbing, if other do it. :?


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Postby JackFrost » 2006-05-26, 17:48

Amikeco wrote:
yabba wrote:I was taught that, on every day, and I am polite ! And if you switch on your lawn mower during mittagsruhe, you'll get some visit from the other neighbours ! :!: :!: :!:


I also won't do something like that, and it can be disturbing, if other do it. :?

Well, it's rude to run the lawn mower during suppertimes and in the evening when the people are trying to relax from a day work. No one complained, but I just find it rude for me to do it. :?
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Postby Car » 2006-05-26, 18:58

yabba wrote:And using the polite forms of the verb for addressing your parents seems very strange to me (even to the grand-parents); but I have heard stories like that before


Our Dutch guest docent told us that he's using the polite forms for addressing his parents (in Dutch), but "Du" when talking to his German relatives in German and found it quite strange.
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Postby Gormur » 2006-05-26, 21:24

Interestingly there's no distinction made between De and du in my family, presumably because everyone has been following the changes going on in Norway with newspapers and correspondence (letters, etc) since immigration -- a lot of Norwegians only use du nowadays. When I meet some old relatives whom I don't know in Norway, I use De, but that's just my personal preference and I wasn't taught to do so. Among relatives we are just very informal in many ways, but of course there are many taboo subjects - the occasional silence (it seems like American culture translates this as an uncomfortable moment, but it really just means we are thinking or have nothing to say at the moment) Ron described it, I would feel right at home -- except the formal part. I assume by formal he means reserved. We are reserved I guess you could say, compared to your average Southern European or sth...for me it's just my nature or normal behavior so it's hard to compare. Every culture expresses themselves differently I suppose.
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Postby allemaalmeezinge » 2006-05-26, 21:32

People here are not reserved. We are open and direct, but that can be dangerous, too, when you only accept hearing 'nice' things from others!

And I don't like being reserved... it's a sterile way of living.. (and everybody should know that's an oxymoron!)

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Postby Nendûr » 2006-05-26, 22:18

is there a post about uruguay's do's an and don't's already??

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Postby Saaropean » 2006-05-27, 3:45

About the lawn mower times: Most house rules force you to be quiet at noon and at night. Here's the relevant paragraph from my lease contract:
Die Hausbewohner sind gehalten, alles zu unterlassen, was ein ruhiges und friedliches Zusammenwohnen stören könnte, insbesondere sind Lärmen, lautes Betreiben von Tonanlagen und Türenschlagen zu vermeiden.
Unbedingte Ruhe ist von 13 bis 15 Uhr sowie von 20 bis 7 Uhr einzuhalten. Beim Betreiben von Tonanlagen und Geräten des Mieters dürfen andere Mieter nicht beeinträchtigt werden.

In other words: Please be quiet so your neighbors don't feel disturbed by you. And it's verboten to turn on your stereo between 13 and 15, and between 20 and 7 o'clock.

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Postby allemaalmeezinge » 2006-05-27, 8:50

Wär auch noch schöner, wenn jeder machen könnte was er wollte 8) 8) 8) 8) 8) 8) 8)

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Postby Hoogstwaarschijnlijk » 2006-05-27, 11:55

Car wrote:
yabba wrote:And using the polite forms of the verb for addressing your parents seems very strange to me (even to the grand-parents); but I have heard stories like that before


Our Dutch guest docent told us that he's using the polite forms for addressing his parents (in Dutch), but "Du" when talking to his German relatives in German and found it quite strange.
Most people here don't use polite forms for addressing their parents, I think. But for grand-parents it is still often used, or for other family. I use it only for the sisters of my grandmother.

Polite forms are never used for relatives, I have learnt that this isn't the case in Germany?
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Postby Car » 2006-05-27, 14:31

Well, the docent's already 56, so it might be a difference of age groups.
No, we never use polite forms for relatives.
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Postby Nendûr » 2006-05-27, 19:29

Well, here you should always use informal (exept, maybe, at work or with very old people)If you are not sure, you can always ask: te puedo tutear? (can i *i can´t think of a sinonim in english* talk informally with you?

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Postby Angasule » 2006-05-28, 6:14

Here in Bahia Blanca, Argentina (south of Buenos Aires province) it's rare to speak formally to your parents, although I had some neighbourhood friends who would do that, and it was weird (this was 15 years ago, of course).
Men kissing each other is a Buenos Aires (the city) custom as far as I know, I'm somewhat used to it because I travel there often, but I had a friend who was the only one who didn't travel to Buenos Aires more or less regularly and was very macho, he would look at you as if deciding whether to kill you with a hatchet or a butcher's knife if you even hinted at kissing him. We shake hands, except if there's a girl then we kiss. I don't kiss or shake hands with my immediate family and male friends, usually we just say hello or, in the case of a pre-breakfast-I-just-got-out-of-bed situation, a loud grunt :) But then, I'm not a people person :P
Oh, and among young people it's common to use a different handshake, in which you grab the thumbs, sort of :? It's informal and definitely not to be used with older people.
I agree with the don't-be-early rule, specially if picking up a date, you *never* show up early, since she probably won't be ready, and it'll be awkward, or she won't be able to open the door and you'll have to wait outside, or her parents will open the door and you'll have to spend 10 minutes talking with them (most guys don't like that heh).
*Never* take off your shoes, it's rude. We have welcome mats, use them if your shoes are dirty, although it's not required otherwise.
For the most part, if you visit someone expect to be fed until you are about to explode, and then more, the older the host, the more likely he is to do this... Refusing to eat is ok, though. I'ts also ok (and welcome) to bring food when visiting (in that case, the food is 'facturas', I'm not sure how to translate that type of food... it includes croissants). This applies to family as well, once when I was young I was visiting my grandparents and I didn't want to shower (their bathroom was cold and scary :P ) so I ate toast with honey for a couple of hours, my grandmother was so happy :D My parents were a bit pissed when they arrived and saw I wasn't ready, though.
In Argentina there are a lot of different behaviours because it depends on the immigrants that arrived to the area, the particular immigrant family of the host (specially in this area, everybody is descended from an immigrant, Italian and Spanish mainly).
In Buenos Aires and here (we're very similar), lunch is between 12 and 14 (it doesn't take 2 hours, it's just that whatever lunch time you have, is inside that range), and dinner is between 20-22:30, unless it's a special occasion, then it might be much later. Usually between 16 and 18 there is a small meal (excellent time for facturas and mate). The no-call time is from 12 to 16 (lunch-siesta), although it's becoming less and less so. 15 years ago the city seemed to be a ghost town during those hours (it was great fun, actually).
Usually if in doubt, speak formally, or ask "lo puedo tutear?" (which is funny, since we don't use 'tu'!), two people under 30 will pretty much always use the informal, in mixed situations it's hard to say.
Don't be freaked out if someone apparently goes ballistic and starts insulting someone or something, it's quite normal, and after they finish the string of insults they'll frown and go on doing what they were doing (this is quite common in relation to traffic). Oh, drivers are insane, I think it's required by law, my motto while driving is "go kill yourself", it's what I say to all the nutty drivers when they do some dangerous maneuver (I let them go and hope they kill themselves and don't hurt me :P ), bus drivers in particular think they have a license to kill, bikers think they drive buses and pedestrians think they can fly (which is only true if hit by a bus). Expect to break the law, recently I was at an intersection and I waited for four full cycles of the traffic lights with no one letting me through, I had to go through a red light as it changed (so that all other cars were still), cars ignore pedestrians, so if they want to turn a corner, they will, and you better get out of the way.
Dressing lightly is quite ok, but no topless or nudity (except in certain spots), in beach towns it's not unusual for some people to go to the cinema barefoot (I'd recommend sandals, though).
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Postby Hoogstwaarschijnlijk » 2006-05-28, 8:48

Car wrote:Well, the docent's already 56, so it might be a difference of age groups.
No, we never use polite forms for relatives.
Yes, because his parents are in the age groups of our grandparents, so it fits then :)

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Postby ego » 2006-05-28, 9:11

As angasule said, in Greece too you have to eat everything they offer you and seem very happy about it. When they bring you the food or the sweet you must look excited and thankful, eat it ALL and at the end say how much you liked it with a big smile. Most probably they will ask you if you want more. Then you can avoid it by saying that you had eaten much before visiting them already or smth like that. I still remember when I was 15, I went to some friend's house and their mum offered me and my brother a sweet which was awful. We both ate just one spoonful and let it down saying "it's ok, we don't want more". I'm still ashamed of that!

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Postby 0stsee » 2007-08-21, 12:10

A very nice thread, but somehow too general.

It could be split into countries/regions or certain particular themes. :)


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Postby Balaur » 2007-08-25, 1:43

Messi wrote:My advice for gay people who come in Romania: DO NOT reveal your sexual orientation :wink:


I must agree with this statement. It is rather safe to say that the majority of Romanians are conservative Christians, and some can be very stubborn and closed-minded, and therefore not very accepting. So mentioning your sexual orientation (if you're not heterosexual) or your religious beliefs (if you're not Christian) might not be wise if you want to be on a Romanian's good side, though you will inevitably be asked if you go to church (and chances are that they expect a "yes").
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Postby Almar » 2007-08-25, 3:00

for Iceland

DOs:
Shake hands
Buy a lot
Talk about how great this country is
Talk about how beautiful the landscape is
Talk about how proud we should be of our language

DON'Ts:
Don't spit.
Don't talk about how ugly this country really is.
Don't bash Björk.
Don't talk about how expensive everything is, just buy more!
asdf

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Postby JackFrost » 2007-08-25, 3:17

Almar wrote:Don't talk about how expensive everything is, just buy more!

As if Icelanders don't moan about everything being expensive...especially the booze. :shock:
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Postby Almar » 2007-08-25, 3:27

JackFrost wrote:
Almar wrote:Don't talk about how expensive everything is, just buy more!

As if Icelanders don't moan about everything being expensive...especially the booze. :shock:


Shut up and buy more! :evil:
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Re: DOs and DON'Ts in your countries

Postby Gormur » 2020-02-24, 15:05

I never would've thought vaporizing tobacco would take off. The weird thing was, years ago in like 2008~2009 it was illegal to order/import vapour pens from places like China. Now it's legal. Speaking of customs, i don't get it customs. Where's your hypocrisy? :hmm:

DOs
Give people plenty of space
Avoid talking politics
Tip waiters or waitresses
Be nice in public

DON'Ts
Don't make lewd comments in public
Don't correct peoples' grammar
Don't assume others' customs
Don't use your phone to call friends outside your current circle
Eigi gegnir þat at segja at bók nøkkur er hreinferðug eðr ønnur spelluð því at vandliga ok dáliga eru bœkr ritnar ok annat kunnum vér eigi um þœr at dœma


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